{"id":12440,"date":"2015-07-31T04:57:18","date_gmt":"2015-07-30T22:57:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/?p=12440"},"modified":"2015-07-31T04:57:18","modified_gmt":"2015-07-30T22:57:18","slug":"6-bai-ba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/6-bai-ba\/","title":{"rendered":"6. B\u00c0I BA"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>B\u00c0I BA: \u00dd NGH\u0128A T\u00cdNH D\u1ee4C CON NG\u01af\u1edcI<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh tr\u1ea7n th\u1ebf n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng hay m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 v\u1eadt li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ea5t s\u00e9t l\u00e0m n\u00ean \u00fd ch\u00ed con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang v\u00e0 mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a b\u00ed t\u00edch. T\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh vinh quang Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. N\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c ch\u00fang ta. T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c truy\u1ec1n sinh, v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng ph\u1ea7n ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh theo h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p><b>Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ef1 thi\u1ec7n h\u1ea3o thi\u00eang li\u00eang<\/b><\/p>\n<p>37. \u0110\u1ee9c tin C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng g\u1eafn ch\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u201cv\u1eadt l\u00fd\u201d n\u00e0y. Th\u00e1nh Kinh m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u trong m\u1ed9t khu v\u01b0\u1eddn v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c[1]. Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o l\u1ecbch s\u1eed th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1ea5y. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu Kit\u00f4, Con Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eb7c l\u1ea5y x\u00e1c ph\u00e0m v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta. Trong c\u00e1c b\u00ed t\u00edch, v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng. B\u00e1nh v\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u, n\u01b0\u1edbc, d\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m c\u1ee7a b\u00e0n tay con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>38. Ch\u00fang ta tin c\u00e1c vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1c \u00e1i ch\u1ea1m t\u1edbi th\u00e2n x\u00e1c. Khi ch\u00fang ta cho k\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3i \u0103n, k\u1ebb kh\u00e1t u\u1ed1ng, cho k\u1ebb tr\u1ea7n tru\u1ed3ng m\u1eb7c, cho k\u1ebb v\u00f4 gia c\u01b0 n\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e1u, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111au y\u1ebfu, th\u0103m vi\u1ebfng k\u1ebb t\u00f9 r\u1ea1c, hay ch\u00f4n x\u00e1c k\u1ebb ch\u1ebft, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu (Mt 25,31-40). Ch\u00fang ta tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean th\u00ec t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh (St 1,4-31). Ni\u1ec1m tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ea5y th\u1ea5m s\u00e2u v\u00e0o trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y n\u01a1i ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn tr\u00fac, c\u00e1c chu k\u1ef3 m\u1eebng l\u1ec5 v\u00e0 chay t\u1ecbnh trong l\u1ecbch ph\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh d\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u00e1 b\u00ed t\u00edch.<\/p>\n<p><b>T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nam c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 n\u1eef, d\u1ef1 ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0o c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00edch thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/b><\/p>\n<p>39. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a thi\u00eang li\u00eang, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u1edbi c\u00e1ch ta s\u1ed1ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. Th\u00e2n x\u00e1c ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecf s\u00f2 ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng linh h\u1ed3n hay nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn h\u1eefu gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o b\u1ed9. C\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 nguy\u00ean li\u1ec7u th\u00f4 s\u01a1 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f9y nghi l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng hay l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, th\u00e2n x\u00e1c v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi nhau c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u xa. M\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t g\u1ed3m th\u00e2n x\u00e1c v\u00e0 linh h\u1ed3n. Th\u00e1nh n\u1eef Hildegard Bingen vi\u1ebft: &#8220;Th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1n th\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a linh h\u1ed3n, c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi linh h\u1ed3n nh\u1edd c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan, nh\u01b0 chi\u1ebfc b\u00e1nh xe c\u1ed1i xay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u01b0\u1edbc quay tr\u00f2n[2]. Th\u00e2n x\u00e1c c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea9m sinh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o v\u1eadt do Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n th\u00e2m s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a c\u0103n t\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00edch v\u0129nh c\u1eedu ch\u00fang ta. Hai ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 h\u00f3a th\u00e2n v\u00e0o trong k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nhau, s\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 m\u1edf ra cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1 gi\u00e1 hay l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n<p>40. H\u1eb3n nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch. T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t uy l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o trong c\u00e1c sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 c\u1ea3 m\u1eb7t t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1eb7t x\u1ea5u. Cho n\u00ean khi t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c b\u1ecb s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1ch sai l\u1ea1c hay v\u00f4 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1, th\u00ec lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u00e2y ra h\u1ed7n \u0111\u1ed9n v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. D\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. C\u0103n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea1c kh\u1ea3i n\u01a1i Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu v\u00e0 n\u01a1i k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i qua s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb sa ng\u00e3.<\/p>\n<p>41. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu v\u00ec s\u1ef1 truy\u1ec1n sinh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng, v\u00ec m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau sinh h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 giao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u00ec t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 si\u00eau nhi\u00ean, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f9ng nh\u1eafm t\u1edbi \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a &#8220;nh\u00e2n linh&#8221;. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u00e1ng ch\u1ebf ra hay t\u00e1i th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ea3o, \u01a1n g\u1ecdi trao hi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ed1n g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef trong m\u1ed9t giao \u01b0\u1edbc. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 do Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean, v\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i trong giao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i.<\/p>\n<p>42. Ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi hai gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 b\u1ed5 t\u00fac cho nhau, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng vi\u00ean m\u00e3n[3]. N\u00f3i theo \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha Phanxic\u00f4: &#8221; \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec7t t\u00e1c s\u00e1ng th\u1ebf\u201d[4].<\/p>\n<p>43. \u01a0n g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng vi\u00ean m\u00e3n n\u00e0y li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef, c\u1ea3 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c v\u00e0 linh h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi v\u1eeba h\u1eefu ch\u1ea5t v\u1eeba thi\u00eang li\u00eang[5]. Th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, theo m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ng\u00f4i v\u1ecb[6]. B\u1edfi th\u1ebf, t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc m\u00e1y. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, v\u1ed1n l\u1ed9 hi\u1ec7n n\u01a1i th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n cho t\u00ednh h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n x\u00e1c v\u00e0 cho kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb[7]. \u1ede t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u01a1n g\u1ecdi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 l\u1ec7nh truy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa &#8220;H\u00e3y sinh s\u00f4i v\u00e0 n\u1ea3y n\u1edf&#8221; (St 1,28). Do \u0111\u00f3, cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng qua th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, do ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m cha v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9[8].<\/p>\n<p>44. Th\u1eadt ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng m\u00e0 nghe th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m s\u01b0\u1edbng vui trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a A\u0111am khi \u00f4ng v\u1eeba tho\u1ea1t nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u00e0 Eva: &#8220;Phen n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 x\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi x\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i, th\u1ecbt b\u1edfi th\u1ecbt t\u00f4i!&#8221;(St 2,23). S\u00e1ch Gi\u00e1o L\u00fd H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o ghi ch\u00fa r\u1eb1ng, t\u1eeb thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u &#8220;ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam nh\u1eadn ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u2018t\u00f4i\u2019 kh\u00e1c, chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh&#8221;[9]. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 nhau do Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0110\u1ea5ng T\u1ea1o H\u00f3a, ban cho. Theo k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, c\u1ea3 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eabn y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 d\u1ecb bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u1ed5 t\u00fac gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, l\u00e0 nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef, c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd cho nhau. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhau (St 1,26-27), ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh cho nhau[10]. Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 trao ban ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh cho tha nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn b\u1edfi nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n<p>45. Th\u00e1nh Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn &#8220;\u00fd ngh\u0129a hi\u1ec7p h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n x\u00e1c&#8221;[11]. Ng\u00e0i ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Vatican II n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng &#8220;T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh d\u1ea1ng th\u1ee9c hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhau&#8221;[12]. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 d\u1ecb bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh ghi d\u1ea5u tr\u00ean m\u1ecdi t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, b\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh em hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecb em, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3 l\u00e1ng gi\u1ec1ng, trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n, v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh. C\u0103n t\u00ednh nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 c\u01a1 s\u1edf c\u1ee7a \u01a1n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0m cha hay l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean hay thi\u00eang li\u00eang. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, d\u1ecb bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh mang m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a ph\u1ed5 qu\u00e1t.<\/p>\n<p>46. B\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a c\u0103n t\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta, t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb. T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t xung l\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 l\u00fd hay c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. \u01af\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c cho th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ch\u00fang ta khao kh\u00e1t m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c m\u00ecnh. Vi\u1ec7c giao h\u1ee3p, cho d\u1eabu c\u00f3 \u201cth\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi sinh l\u00fd. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 \u00e2n \u00e1i, theo m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, lu\u00f4n mang t\u00ednh thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft nh\u00e2n linh, cho d\u00f9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay h\u1eefu \u00fd. M\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1c v\u1ecb k\u1ef7. T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb v\u00e0 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n bao g\u1ed3m m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch v\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u00ed t\u00edch kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1edf h\u1eefu ri\u00eang t\u01b0, nh\u01b0ng m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng ra trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi giao \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c v\u00ec t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c mang m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a thi\u00eang li\u00eang<\/b><\/p>\n<p>47. Hai \u01a1n g\u1ecdi kh\u00e1c nhau bi\u1ec7n minh cho k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn. C\u1ea3 hai l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y c\u00f9ng qui v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 chung l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t giao \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf trong \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ed9c th\u00e2n l\u00e0 cung c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. \u0110\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c theo c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 do. S\u1ef1 ti\u1ebft d\u1ee5c ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 khinh ch\u00ea t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u00f4n vinh t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c khi mu\u1ed1n di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 \u00e1i \u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 b\u1edfi giao \u01b0\u1edbc. Khi s\u1ed1ng trong \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a giao \u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u trao hi\u1ebfn t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, cho vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7t ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00ean ham mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ee5c d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n<p>48. Ba ch\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfp theo \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp c\u00e1ch chi ti\u1ebft h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n (ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 4 v\u00e0 5) v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n (ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 6). Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u1ea3 hai l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n tr\u00ean l\u1ec7nh truy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng nam t\u00ednh v\u00e0 n\u1eef t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 hi sinh. C\u1ea3 hai l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 giao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng l\u00e0 nam v\u00e0 l\u00e0 n\u1eef nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ee5 h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui. K\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean tr\u00ean t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt theo giao \u01b0\u1edbc) \u0111\u00f4i khi ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh th\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i \u1ea5y t\u00f4n vinh v\u00e0 t\u1ecf b\u00e0y \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean theo h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n<p>49. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng l\u00e0 nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef theo h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh. \u0110\u1ee9c khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau, t\u00f9y theo ch\u00fang ta k\u1ebft h\u00f4n hay kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u00e2n x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5. Khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n hay kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, s\u1ed1ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch cao qu\u00ed v\u00e0 v\u1edbi \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng, trong \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa. T\u00e0 d\u00e2m th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh. T\u00e0 d\u00e2m c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn xem tha nh\u00e2n theo l\u1ed1i nh\u00ecn l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 them kh\u00e1t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt &#8220;kh\u00f4ng coi th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng nh\u00ecn th\u00e2n x\u00e1c trong c\u00e1c chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb[13]. Khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c &#8220;ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p&#8221; v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh v\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng theo h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng trong giao \u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n<p>50. Hi\u1ec3u theo ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y, khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh. &#8220;T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eeda t\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh &#8230; Ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng s\u1ef1 khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 trinh khi\u1ebft\u201d[14]. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (eros) trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, s\u1ef1 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n, s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u1ed9c th\u00e2n khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh, qua vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebft d\u1ee5c gi\u1eef trinh khi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, s\u1ef1 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 trung th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n<p>51. C\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o n\u00e0y c\u00f3 t\u1eeb xa x\u01b0a r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0 th\u00e1nh Ambr\u00f4si\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft t\u1eeb th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 th\u1ee9 IV: \u201cC\u00f3 ba h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh: c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00f3a b\u1ee5a, v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng trinh. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng khen ng\u1ee3i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c&#8230; \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m n\u00ean s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh\u201d[15].<\/p>\n<p>52. L\u00e0m sao s\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n n\u00e0y c\u00e1ch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n hay \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi nay nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta trong ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a t\u1eadp gi\u00e1o l\u00fd n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>53. Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y v\u00ec y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean cho giao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00fang theo c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 k\u00eau g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn l\u00e0 hai cung c\u00e1ch c\u00f9ng s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef trong \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a giao \u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n<p><b>C\u00e2u H\u1ecfi Th\u1ea3o Lu\u1eadn <\/b><\/p>\n<p>a. T\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o vui h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady? H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u01b0 thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, th\u1ee9c \u0103n, hay m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt &#8211; T\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf trong truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o?<\/p>\n<p>b. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t phi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e1 tr\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 do qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb hay khai th\u00e1c t\u00f9y s\u1edf th\u00edch?<\/p>\n<p>c. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m, l\u1ea1c th\u00fa v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta ham th\u00edch hay \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. L\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh? L\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ed chu\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 vui h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e1c t\u1ea1o v\u1eadt c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y?<\/p>\n<p>d. T\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o theo truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c \u0103n m\u1eebng v\u00e0 \u0103n chay? c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n?<\/p>\n<p>[1] Cf. GLHTCG, 1602. Cf. Kh 19,7; St 1,26-27.<br \/>\n[2] Th\u00e1nh Hildegard of Bingen, Explanatio Symboli Sancti Athanasii in Patrologia Latina 197, 1073. Cf. 1Cr, 6,19.<br \/>\n[3] Cf. GLHTCG, 2331, v\u00e0 FC, 11.<br \/>\n[4] \u0110GH Phanxic\u00f4, B\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng l\u1ec5 t\u1ea1i Nh\u00e0 nguy\u1ec7n Santa Marta \u201cKhi m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i\u201d , L\u2019Osservatore Romano (28.02.2014).<br \/>\n[5] Cf. GLHTCG, 362.<br \/>\n[6] Cf. \u0110GH Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II, Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 Th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c (09.01.1980).<br \/>\n[7] B\u1ed9 Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd \u0110\u1ee9c tin, Th\u01b0 V\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef (2004), 8.<br \/>\n[8] Cf. \u0110GH Phaol\u00f4 VI, Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p Humanae Vitae (HV) (1968), 12.<br \/>\n[9] Cf. GLHTCG, 371.<br \/>\n[10] Cf. GLHTCG, 371.<br \/>\n[11] Cf. \u0110GH Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II, Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 Th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c (02.01.1980).<br \/>\n[12] GS, 12.<br \/>\n[13] Karol Wojtyla, Love and Responsibility (Ignatius Press 1993), 171.<br \/>\n[14] GLHTCG, 2348-2349. Cf. Ambrose, De viduis 4.23.<br \/>\n[15] GLHTCG, 2349.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u00c0I BA: \u00dd NGH\u0128A T\u00cdNH D\u1ee4C CON NG\u01af\u1edcI Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh tr\u1ea7n th\u1ebf n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng hay m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 v\u1eadt li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ea5t s\u00e9t l\u00e0m n\u00ean \u00fd ch\u00ed con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang v\u00e0 mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a b\u00ed t\u00edch. 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