M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng phong nhi\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. Con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh n\u00ean t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai y nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u00ecu d\u1eaft l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3m th\u1eafm t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u00e1o hi\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho m\u1ecdi c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. C\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia, l\u00e0 n\u01a1i cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap cho con c\u00e1i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang v\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n mang l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh tinh th\u1ea7n cho nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng do khoa sinh h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra<\/p>\n
68. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n bao h\u00e0m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, l\u00f2ng trung t\u00edn, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng bao h\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 giao \u01b0\u1edbc x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng truy\u1ec1n sinh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. Khoa sinh h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f2n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u1ea5y trong s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n
69. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p kia (t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n) trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh phong nhi\u00eau trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n tr\u00e1nh th\u1ee5 thai v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh, trong Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 7. Trong ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn xem t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp t\u00ednh phong nhi\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi b\u00ed t\u00edch c\u1ee7a giao \u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n
70. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 cho kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng truy\u1ec1n sinh gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef k\u1ebft h\u00f4n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi t\u1ef1 do \u01b0ng thu\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u1ec1 h\u1ee9a s\u1ebd trung th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i b\u00ean nhau,[1] h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1eb7t vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n sinh trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi giao \u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 giao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1edbi D\u00e2n Israel v\u00e0 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, nh\u01b0 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh d\u1ea1y, l\u00e0 \u201cgiao \u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i, qua \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef t\u1ea1o n\u00ean v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7p tr\u1ecdn c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh, giao \u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 thi\u1ec7n \u00edch c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c sinh s\u1ea3n c\u00f9ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 n\u00e2ng l\u00ean h\u00e0ng B\u00ed t\u00edch gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecbu ph\u00e9p r\u1eeda t\u1ed9i\u201d[2]. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng[3].<\/p>\n
71. B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i ban cho ta s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trung th\u00e0nh giao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ban s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng gi\u1eefa Ba Ng\u00f4i Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 Cha, Con, v\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n, cho \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. N\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u0103n nguy\u00ean m\u1edbi m\u1ebb v\u00e0 s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n cho t\u00ednh phong nhi\u00eau sinh h\u1ecdc, v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 do l\u00f2ng qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Nh\u1edd v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u201cba \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n\u201d kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh Augustin\u00f4 (con c\u00e1i, s\u1ef1 trung t\u00edn, v\u00e0 b\u00ed t\u00edch) \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa[4].<\/p>\n
\u01a0n g\u1ecdi thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9<\/b><\/p>\n
72. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi n\u00e0o, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 n\u00ean ch\u0103ng v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 con kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ec9 theo chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c qui v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u201cth\u1ec3 l\u00fd, kinh t\u1ebf, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p, nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t khi ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh[5]. Nh\u01b0ng, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn \u0111\u1eb7t tr\u00ean c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u00ed t\u00edch: t\u00ecnh y\u00eau bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 qua s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, hy sinh, t\u00edn th\u00e1c v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng m\u1edf ra \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn l\u00f2ng qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean b\u00ed t\u00edch v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, khi \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o hay kh\u00f4ng, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n \u1edf trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n v\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
73. Khi \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh cha m\u1eb9, n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i t\u1ecf hi\u1ec7n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. Khi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng sinh con c\u00e1i theo m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang ta, th\u00ec ch\u00ednh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn l\u1ed1i cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ee9c tin cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh[6]. \u201cNh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1eaft x\u00edch li\u00ean k\u1ebft th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i,\u201d \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha Phanxic\u00f4 n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf khi m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y ng\u00e0i ban ph\u00e9p Thanh t\u1ea9y cho 32 em b\u00e9. Ng\u00e0i c\u00f2n n\u00f3i: \u201cAnh ch\u1ecb em l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con trai hay con g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn b\u00ed t\u00edch Thanh t\u1ea9y, nh\u01b0ng trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u0103m n\u1eefa, s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con hay m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn b\u00ed t\u00edch Thanh t\u1ea9y; v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9c tin!\u201d[7].<\/p>\n
74. Chu\u1ed7i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 c\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 tr\u1ea3i d\u00e0i qua c\u00e1c thi\u00ean ni\u00ean k\u1ef7. C\u1ee9 hai l\u1ea7n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y (v\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n cho t\u1edbi h\u00f4m nay) kinh nguy\u1ec7n Do th\u00e1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi kinh Sh\u2019ma c\u1ed5 x\u01b0a, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi kinh th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 trong s\u00e1ch \u0110\u1ec7 nh\u1ecb lu\u1eadt, nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n
\u201cNghe \u0111\u00e2y, h\u1ee1i Israel! \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ch\u00fang ta, l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa duy nh\u1ea5t. H\u00e3y y\u00eau m\u1ebfn \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a anh em, h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng, h\u1ebft d\u1ea1, h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c anh em. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u00f4i truy\u1ec1n cho anh em h\u00f4m nay, anh em ph\u1ea3i ghi t\u1ea1c v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng. Anh em ph\u1ea3i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u1ea5y cho con c\u00e1i, ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang l\u00fac ng\u1ed3i trong nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 khi th\u1ee9c d\u1eady\u201d[8].<\/p>\n
75. Ta nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i: Anh em h\u00e3y l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u1ea5y cho con c\u00e1i anh em. Tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a l\u1ec7nh truy\u1ec1n n\u00e0y, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u0103n b\u1ea3n, l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ea1i h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y giao \u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1eefa Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 Israel. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft con c\u00e1i \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, s\u00e1ch \u0110\u1ec7 nh\u1ecb lu\u1eadt d\u1ea1y: H\u00e3y l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb vinh quang Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i anh em. Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu c\u0169ng d\u1ea1y \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 cho c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi: \u201cH\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi Ta\u201d (Mt 19,14). C\u1ea3 \u0110\u1ec7 nh\u1ecb lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i: H\u00e3y lo li\u1ec7u l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i, trong v\u00f2ng tay y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 v\u1edbi d\u00e2n Ng\u00e0i. H\u00e3y d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 chi\u00eam ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. H\u00e3y nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y ngay t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 anh em v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
76. \u01a0n g\u1ecdi n\u00e0y x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o. C\u0169ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y qui t\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef l\u1ea1i, d\u1ea1y cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a giao \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 mang h\u1ecd t\u1edbi B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i, d\u1eabn d\u1eaft \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh[9]. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9: \u201cS\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m n\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh, trong \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1edf n\u00ean con c\u00e1i Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa nh\u1edd \u01a1n Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong b\u00ed t\u00edch Thanh t\u1ea9y, d\u00e2n Ch\u00faa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e3i qua c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7\u201d[10]. Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c duy tr\u00ec lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh. Trong ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Augustin\u00f4, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh gi\u1eefa nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef \u201cl\u00e0 th\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea5t cho h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0\u01a1m m\u1ea7m v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00f4\u201d[11] v\u00e0 ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00f4 tr\u1ea7n th\u1ebf hay x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u00e2n s\u1ef1, nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0i c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00f4 tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi s\u1ebd tr\u1ed5 sinh hoa tr\u00e1i sum s\u00ea.<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng trong H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia<\/b><\/p>\n
77. C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Vatican II g\u1ecdi gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cH\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia,\u201d ecclesia domestica:<\/p>\n
Trong Gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia, nh\u1edd l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0nh, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi rao gi\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean cho con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap ph\u00e1t huy \u01a1n g\u1ecdi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee9a con, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi th\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ee9c[12].<\/p>\n
B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. \u201c\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ea3m nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch v\u1ee5 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3\u201d[13], nh\u01b0ng, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi kh\u00f4ng \u201ct\u1eeb tr\u00ean kh\u00f4ng trung r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng\u201d[14]. Th\u00f3i quen ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 vun x\u1edbi. Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a cha v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean con c\u00e1i, l\u00fac \u1edf nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 khi \u1edf nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n chung v\u1edbi nhau th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm n\u01a1i cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ea7u, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i ngo\u1ea1i, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 tu s\u0129 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp tay h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m tr\u00f2n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd n\u1eefa c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha Phanxic\u00f4, m\u1ed9t tu s\u0129 d\u00f2ng T\u00ean v\u1edbi bao n\u0103m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u0111\u00e3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 cho bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111i song h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o: \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 gi\u1eef m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe Ng\u00e0i trong thinh l\u1eb7ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc Nh\u00e0 T\u1ea1m, v\u00e0 l\u1eafng s\u00e2u trong n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, th\u00e2n th\u01b0a v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i, n\u0103ng l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c b\u00ed t\u00edch. Khi gi\u1eef t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa th\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ta \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf ng\u1ecf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ea7u Ch\u00faa cho ch\u00fang ta nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng Ng\u00e0i v\u00e0 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u Ng\u00e0i mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n\u201d[15].<\/p>\n
78. Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, m\u1ed9t \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean mu\u1ed1n thanh luy\u1ec7n c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c, x\u01b0ng th\u00fa t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 \u0103n n\u0103n s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111i \u0111\u00e0ng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c, m\u1edf tr\u00ed m\u1edf l\u00f2ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc L\u1eddi Kinh Th\u00e1nh v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n
H\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n l\u1ea1i k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u1ea5y cho con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch v\u1ee5 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, c\u1edfi m\u1edf \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, trao \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. \u0110\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01a1n g\u1ecdi cho \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n \u00fd s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng trung th\u1ef1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh cho Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng phi\u00eau l\u01b0u v\u00e0 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch m\u1edbi m\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn khi ch\u00fang ta th\u00e2n th\u01b0a: \u201cXin th\u00e1nh \u00dd Cha, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u00fd con, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n\u201d[16]. Th\u00e1nh T\u00ear\u00easa th\u00e0nh Lisieux \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n theo l\u1ed1i n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 th\u01a1, ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i: \u201cL\u1ea1y Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a con, con ch\u1ecdn l\u1ea5y h\u1ebft. Con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m th\u00e1nh n\u1eeda v\u1eddi. Con kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e2u. Con ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 con v\u1eabn c\u00f2n gi\u1eef l\u1ea5y \u00fd ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a con. V\u1eady xin Ch\u00faa h\u00e3y c\u1ea5t n\u00f3 \u0111i, v\u00ec con ch\u1ecdn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n\u201d[17].<\/p>\n
79. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh g\u1ed3m nhi\u1ec1u con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng lo\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. L\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 m\u1edf ra cho \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y, th\u00ec d\u1eabu ngay gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng m\u1ecfi m\u1ec7t v\u00e0 l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh m\u1edf ra cho Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed. Kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5t n\u1eb7ng th\u00eam cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng th\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu trong c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d[18]. Ch\u00ednh trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch m\u1ecfng d\u00f2n mong manh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3, b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd khi ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i: \u201cKhi t\u00f4i y\u1ebfu, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00f4i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd\u201d (2Cr 12,10).<\/p>\n
80. L\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng, l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 cung, t\u1ef1 t\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu. C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, ho\u1eb7c t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng b\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng \u01b0u ti\u00ean; ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a th\u1eddi gian nh\u00e0n r\u1ed7i, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 th\u1eddi gian ng\u1ee7 ngh\u1ec9 – nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a \u201ckinh t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh cho nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 t\u1ea7m hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ec1 th\u00f3i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u201cn\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n m\u1ecfng manh\u201d, n\u01a1i Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfu r\u1ecdi qua, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 hi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch theo Ph\u00fac \u00e2m l\u00e0m c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u1eady men.<\/p>\n
B\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/b><\/p>\n
81. \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha Phanxic\u00f4 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng lo\u1ea1i n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf :<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat theo kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y: b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u00edt dung ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 s\u1ebd dung l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n\u2026T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean [cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh] : l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd n\u1ebfu l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c soi s\u00e1ng b\u1edfi L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa? N\u1ebfu cung c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn b\u1edfi L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd lo\u1ea1i m\u1eabu g\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0o? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec khi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n: \u201c\u1ed2, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y\u2026\u201d Nh\u01b0ng, c\u00f2n anh ch\u1ecb, anh ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb? Anh ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n n\u00f3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi ch\u00fang? Anh ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang v\u1ec1 L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa hay v\u1ec1 tin t\u1ee9c tr\u00ean TV? Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i v\u1ec1 L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa! V\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o l\u00fd vi\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c: n\u1ebfu con tim c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u01b0\u1edfi \u1ea5m b\u1edfi L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa, th\u00ec l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o h\u1ecd s\u01b0\u1edfi \u1ea5m con tim c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em, c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb, c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? M\u00e0 m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ecdc Kinh Th\u00e1nh th\u00f4i th\u00ec c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh: ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00edch th\u00e2n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh, ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu n\u00f3i trong \u0111\u00f3 \u2026 Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n xem L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa chi\u1ebfm v\u1ecb tr\u00ed n\u00e0o trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i? T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ec3 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa hay \u0111\u1ec3 nghe cho nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi r\u00f9 r\u00ec ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i? \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh[19].<\/p>\n
82. \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha Phanxic\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i b\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn tin t\u1ee9c tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t h\u01a1n cho c\u1ea3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang, m\u1ea1ng truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang kh\u00e1c. Tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c v\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra theo ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng; tham gia c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c v\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh. S\u00e1ch Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh, khi \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp v\u1ec1 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00e3 l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ng\u00e0y nay \u201cth\u01b0\u1eddng xa l\u1ea1 v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9c tin\u201d[20] . Trong m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a b\u1ecb tan n\u00e1t r\u00e3 r\u1eddi, trong \u0111\u00f3 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng tin c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 l\u00e0m x\u00f3i m\u00f2n quy\u1ec1n b\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i chung, v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o n\u00f3i ri\u00eang, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 ra c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1edf trong th\u1ebf gian nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gian[21].<\/p>\n
83. Khi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai trong ch\u00fang ta (nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em) ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi v\u0103n h\u00f3a, v\u0103n h\u00f3a s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u0110a ph\u1ea7n, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta (nh\u01b0ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em) \u0111\u1ec1u nhi\u1ec5m l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh, phim, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta. Cho n\u00ean, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c cha m\u1eb9, gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1edbn, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ea7u, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00ecu d\u1eaft, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c theo d\u00f5i gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m cho tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng l\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ef1c l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 trong tr\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, gi\u00fap ch\u00fang y\u00eau th\u00edch s\u1ef1 phi\u00eau l\u01b0u m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, v\u00e0 kh\u01a1i d\u1eady s\u1ef1 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n theo \u01a1n g\u1ecdi. C\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chi\u00eam ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch b\u00ed t\u00edch c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. Cha m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ea7u, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, t\u00edn h\u1eefu trong gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9, gi\u00e1o l\u00fd vi\u00ean, th\u00e0y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0y cho tr\u1ebb. Vi\u1ec7c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i bao g\u1ed3m \u201cki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c s\u00e1ch v\u1edf.\u201d \u0110\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c tin. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f2n thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu h\u01a1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n
84. Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn h\u01a1n v\u00e0 l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1ec1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u0103n h\u00f3a chung quanh, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho tr\u1ebb l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn B\u00ed t\u00edch Th\u00eam s\u1ee9c, v\u1ed1n ban cho \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 trung th\u00e0nh trong nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y[22].<\/p>\n
Gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c l\u1eabn nhau<\/b><\/p>\n
85. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh. H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia bao h\u00e0m m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh ho\u00e0n v\u0169: \u201cGia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u2018H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh thu nh\u1ecf,\u2019 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp, h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u1edbi \u2018H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh l\u1edbn,\u2019 t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp\u201d[23]. S\u1ef1 tham d\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean Th\u00e1nh l\u1ec5 Ch\u00faa Nh\u1eadt c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh ph\u1ed5 qu\u00e1t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n t\u00ean g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh ph\u1ed5 qu\u00e1t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea3m tr\u00e1ch v\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u00e0y d\u1ea1y giao \u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1edbi d\u00e2n Ng\u00e0i, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 giao \u01b0\u1edbc thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
86. \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha B\u00ean\u00ea\u0111ict\u00f4 XVI g\u1ecdi gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 l\u00e0 \u201cgia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d, v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u201ckh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d.[24]. Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n c\u00e1c B\u00ed t\u00edch, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng khi nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i nhu c\u1ea7u th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n gi\u00fap th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1c em, tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn kh\u00e1c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o. Gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o ph\u1eadn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y[25]. H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia.<\/p>\n
87. Gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9, gi\u00e1o ph\u1eadn, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u01a1 s\u1edf C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc, c\u00e1c phong tr\u00e0o, \u0111o\u00e0n th\u1ec3, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i, l\u00e0 l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 cha hay m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu cha hay m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 hai v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c nhau, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u0111ang b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, hay \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft, ly d\u1ecb, di c\u01b0, chi\u1ebfn tranh, nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u hay ma t\u00fay, b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh, x\u00e2m h\u1ea1i, b\u00e1ch h\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c l\u01b0u \u0111\u1ed9ng do ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5[26]. \u0110\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng, cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb chia t\u00e1ch, th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc. \u201cS\u1ef1 x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u01a1i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 chia tay nhau \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t, ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi cha hay m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n, ho\u1eb7c trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u2018m\u1edbi,\u2019 \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 cho c\u00e1c v\u1ecb gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c, gi\u00e1o l\u00fd vi\u00ean, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb\u2026. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 thay th\u1ebf cho cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi h\u1ecd\u201d[27].<\/p>\n
88. M\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cgia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i. Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng: \u201cm\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u00f2n h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh\u201d, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c theo g\u01b0\u01a1ng Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4[28]. Gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ngh\u0129a thi\u1ebft. Kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao ni\u00ean y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i mong manh, hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9. Kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai hay \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf nh\u1eefng t\u00edn h\u1eefu b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 l\u1eabn nhau trong tu\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra khu\u00f4n vi\u00ean th\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 s\u00e1ng Ch\u00faa Nh\u1eadt. C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o s\u1ebd x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 c\u00f3 chu to\u00e0n s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh theo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y hay kh\u00f4ng. L\u1ed1i nh\u00ecn n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 n\u00eau g\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 l\u1ebd trong c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 l\u1edbn, v\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 theo l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng v\u00f4 danh. Nh\u01b0ng, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00ean sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb gi\u00e1o s\u0129 h\u00f3a. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u01a1i c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n. Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu \u1edf Galata r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu anh ch\u1ecb em \u201cmang v\u00e1c g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a nhau\u201d, th\u00ec anh ch\u1ecb em \u201cs\u1ebd chu to\u00e0n l\u1ec1 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4\u201d (Gl 6,2). Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00e1m t\u00e0ng, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng mang v\u00e1c nh\u1eefng g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a nhau, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111ang trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i mong manh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 lo li\u1ec7u l\u1ea5y trong n\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta. N\u1ebfu l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7t c\u01a1 s\u1edf tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean cho nhau, v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n lu\u1eadt hi\u1ebfn t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4.<\/p>\n
89. L\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7t ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i. \u0110\u1ee9c Gioan – Phaol\u00f4 II, trong bu\u1ed5i tri\u1ec7u t\u1eadp c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eadn nu\u00f4i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Khi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 cho \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trao \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00e1c qu\u00e0 hi\u1ebfn t\u1eb7ng.<\/p>\n
Trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0y, ti\u1ebfc thay, th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb em b\u1ecb b\u01a1 v\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i \u1ea5m gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c t\u00e0n t\u1eadt, b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng sinh con, th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ec l\u00fd do \u00edch k\u1ef7. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i bu\u00f4ng m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00ec nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n kinh t\u1ebf, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, hay h\u00e0nh ch\u00e1nh quan li\u00eau. L\u1ea1i c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa, trong \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 con c\u1ee7a \u201cch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh\u201d b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1, v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 y khoa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho vi\u1ec7c sinh s\u1ea3n, l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e1ng khi\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t lu\u00e2n l\u00fd. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a lu\u1eadt lu\u00e2n l\u00fd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n h\u1ea3o \u0111ich th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb[29].<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ee9c Gioan – Phaol\u00f4 II hi v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng \u201cc\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn nu\u00f4i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf r\u01a1i\u201d[30]. \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n n\u00f3i l\u00ean ni\u1ec1m hi v\u1ecdng n\u00e0y, b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ed1n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng cho m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh giao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ed1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch hi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n
90. S\u1ef1 \u00e1i \u00e2n gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, h\u1eefu c\u01a1, sinh h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef mang ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng phong nhi\u00eau n\u00e0y v\u00e0o trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh thi\u00eang li\u00eang. L\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi thi\u00eang li\u00eang, v\u00ec \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u1ed1i h\u1eadu c\u1ee7a thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c n\u00e0y l\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n. \u01af\u1edbc v\u1ecdng d\u1ea1n d\u0129 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u1edf trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, trau d\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c thi\u00eang li\u00eang. \u01af\u1edbc v\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m sao cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh tham gia v\u00e0o n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. D\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0a con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng Ch\u00faa c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia mu\u1ed1n h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1edbi H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh ph\u1ed5 qu\u00e1t r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 – kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh. R\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o l\u1eadp n\u00ean nh\u1eefng th\u1eeba t\u00e1c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 trong c\u00e1c s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n
C\u00e2u H\u1ecfi Th\u1ea3o Lu\u1eadn<\/b><\/p>\n
a. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng quan h\u1ec7 b\u1eb1ng h\u1eefu th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?
\nb. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t em nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 c\u00f3 khi n\u00e0o c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ecdc Kinh Th\u00e1nh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t em nh\u1ecf, ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c tin kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u1edf b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9, trong \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n hay l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00ecu d\u1eaft cho m\u1ed9t tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o ch\u01b0a?
\nc. Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a g\u00ec? C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u01a1n g\u1ecdi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?
\nd. H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 ra sao? Gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cth\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n l\u1ec1 lu\u1eadt \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4\u201d nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 trong Gl 6,27 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ?<\/p>\n
[1] Gi\u00e1o lu\u1eadt 1983 (GL), 1056-1057.
\n[2] GL, 1055.
\n[3] GS, 47.
\n[4] Th. Augustin\u00f4, De bono conjugali 32; De Genesi ad Litteram 9.7.12; De nuptiis et concupiscentia, 1.10.11, 17.19, 21.23.
\n[5] Cf. HV, 10.
\n[6] Cf. GLHTCG, 1652-1653. Cf. GS 48, 50.
\n[7] \u0110GH Phanxic\u00f4, B\u00e0i Gi\u1ea3ng l\u1ec5 \u201cL\u1ec5 CG ch\u1ecbu ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda\u201d, Nh\u00e0 Nguy\u1ec7n Sistine (12.01.2014).
\n[8] \u0110nl 6,4-7; ch\u1eef in nghi\u00eang do \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam v\u00e0o.
\n[9] Cf. FC, 14.
\n[10] C\u0110 Vatican II, Hi\u1ebfn ch\u1ebf t\u00edn l\u00fd Lumen gentium (LG) (1964), 11.
\n[11] Th. Augustine, The City of God Against the Pagans, Cambridge University Press, Cambridge, 1988, 667, \u00a715.16.
\n[12] LG 11; cf. GLHTCG, 1655-1658.
\n[13] \u0110GH Phaol\u00f4 VI, T\u0111.Populorum Progressio (PP) (1967), 15.
\n[14] Xem nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean s\u1ed1 60.
\n[15] \u0110GH Phanxic\u00f4, Di\u1ec5n v\u0103n \u201cG\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb t\u1ea1i Umbria\u201d, Assisi, 04.10.2013.
\n[16] Cf. Mt 6,10; 7,21; 12,50; 21,31; 26,39.
\n[17] Th. T\u00ear\u00eaxa th\u00e0nh Lisieux, The Autobiography of Saint Th\u00e9r\u00e8se of Lisieux: The Story of a Soul, b\u1ea3n d\u1ecbch Anh ng\u1eef John Beevers, Doubleday 2001, 9.
\n[18] GS, 38.
\n[19] \u0110GH Phanxic\u00f4, Di\u1ec5n v\u0103n \u201cG\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng M\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecba ph\u1eadn\u201d, Assisi, 04.10.2013.
\n[20] GLHTCG, 1656.
\n[21] Cf. Ga 15,19; Rm 12,2.
\n[22] GLHTCG, 1303, 1308.
\n[23] \u0110GH B\u00ean\u00ea\u0111ict\u00f4 XVI, Di\u1ec5n v\u0103n \u201cGia \u0111\u00ecnh d\u1ea1y cho bi\u1ebft \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng\u201d, 04.10.2010.
\n[24] \u0110GH B\u00ean\u00ea\u0111ict\u00f4 XVI, Di\u1ec5n v\u0103n \u201cH\u00e3y l\u00e0m cho gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh Gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d, 21.03.2011.
\n[25] Cf. FC\u00b844.
\n[26] Cf. FC, 71.77.
\n[27] H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng T\u00f2a Th\u00e1nh v\u1ec1 Gia \u0110\u00ecnh, Enchiridion of the Family (2004), 1303-1304.
\n[28] Cf. FC, 44.
\n[29] \u0110GH Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II, Di\u1ec5n v\u0103n \u201cG\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i do t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c C\u00e1c Th\u1eeba Sai B\u00e1c \u00c1i\u201d, 05.09.2000.
\n[30] FC,41.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
B\u00c0I N\u0102M – T\u1ea0O D\u1ef0NG T\u01af\u01a0NG LAI M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng phong nhi\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. Con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh n\u00ean t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai y nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c … [Read more…]<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[69],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-phaolo","4":"post-12444","6":"format-standard","7":"category-dai-hoi-the-gioi-ve-gia-dinh-ky-viii"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12444","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12444"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12444\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12445,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12444\/revisions\/12445"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12444"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12444"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12444"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}