\u201cKhi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, khi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh, khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m s\u1ef1 d\u1eef, linh h\u1ed3n con c\u00e1i b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng.\u00a0 V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft h\u1eb1n su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi.\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n d\u1ecbch b\u00e0i Gi\u00e1o L\u00fd <\/i>c\u1ee7a <\/i>\u0110TC Phanxic\u00f4<\/i> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/i> ban h\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y<\/i> <\/i>24 th\u00e1ng <\/i>6<\/i> n\u0103m 2015 trong bu\u1ed5i Tri\u1ec1u Y\u1ebft Chung t\u1ea1i <\/i>Qu\u1ea3ng Tr\u01b0\u1eddng Th\u00e1nh Ph\u00ear\u00f4<\/i>.\u00a0 H\u00f4m nay \u0110TC ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c chu k\u1ef3 Gi\u00e1o L\u00fd v\u1ec1 <\/i>Gia \u0110\u00ecnh<\/i>.\u00a0 Ng\u00e0i<\/i> gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch trong Gia \u0110\u00ecnh.<\/i><\/p>\n
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Anh ch\u1ecb em th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, ch\u00e0o anh ch\u1ecb em!<\/p>\n
Trong nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd v\u1eeba qua ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 mong manh c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0 ngh\u00e8o \u0111\u00f3i, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, ch\u1ebft ch\u00f3c. \u00a0H\u00f4m nay ch\u00fang ta suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1edf ra ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 chung s\u1ed1ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00a0Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, khi, trong ch\u00ednh gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 d\u1eef. \u00a0\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t!<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n t\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m b\u1edfi c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00a0Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m (v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t!), l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u, thay v\u00ec di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt n\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, b\u00f3p ch\u1ebft n\u00f3. \u00a0Khi nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y, trong l\u00fac c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1ecf qu\u00ean, ch\u00fang tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n: ch\u00fang bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh ng\u1ea1o m\u1ea1n, th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n, khinh khi. \u00a0V\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft r\u00e1ch h\u1eb1n s\u00e2u, l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u chia r\u1ebd v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 an \u1ee7i n\u01a1i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u00a0Nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng “ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 n\u00e0y” kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh!<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng khi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n trong nh\u1eefng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 lan r\u1ed9ng. \u00a0V\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 “tr\u00fat l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u\u201d con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n
K\u00eca, v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i. \u00a0T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ng\u1eebng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y. \u00a0B\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng b\u1ecb g\u00e2y m\u00ea tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a linh h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. \u00a0C\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n v\u1eb7t, ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng – \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a linh h\u1ed3n. \u00a0Ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n trong c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, s\u1ef1 lo \u00e2u c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i…. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong linh h\u1ed3n l\u00e0 g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? \u00a0Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee9c n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a qu\u1ea3 n\u00fai \u0111ang nghi\u1ec1n n\u00e1t linh h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, trong nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 d\u1eef v\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0m s\u1ef1 d\u1eef, cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed5 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 chung thu\u1ef7 trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng? \u00a0S\u1ee9c n\u1eb7ng n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u2013 nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn x\u1ea5u ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n \u2013 \u0111ang \u0111\u00e8 tr\u00ean linh h\u1ed3n con c\u00e1i? \u00a0Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, khi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh, khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m s\u1ef1 d\u1eef, linh h\u1ed3n con c\u00e1i b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng. \u00a0V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft h\u1eb1n su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi nhau: khi linh h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec5m tr\u00f9ng s\u1ebd lan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u00a0Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 cam k\u1ebft tr\u1edf n\u00ean “m\u1ed9t x\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt” v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 mi\u00ean man ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, s\u1ef1 l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c n\u00e0y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u xa \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. \u00a0Bi\u1ebft bao l\u1ea7n con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea9n tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f3c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh…. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. \u00a0Ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t x\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt. \u00a0Nh\u01b0ng con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u00a0N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc trong \u0111\u00f3 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00f9 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf – m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 nghe trong \u0111o\u1ea1n Tin M\u1eebng – (x. Matthew 18:6<\/span>), ch\u00fang ta t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n L\u1eddi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i (x Mt 19,6-9). \u00a0M\u1ed9t khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e2n x\u00e1c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p trong \u0111\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c chia l\u00eca l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u00a0\u0110\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, khi c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u1ea3i \u0111em ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, ho\u1eb7c con c\u00e1i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n g\u00e2y ra b\u1edfi t\u00ednh ki\u00eau c\u0103ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o t\u00e0n, b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ea1 nh\u1ee5c v\u00e0 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng, b\u00f3c l\u1ed9t v\u00e0 th\u1edd \u01a1.<\/p>\n Nh\u1edd \u01a1n Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1edfi \u0111\u1ee9c tin v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i, l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng cho l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tin, l\u00e0 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u00a0Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p ly h\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u01a1n g\u1ecdi n\u00e0y. \u00a0Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra, trong c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa nh\u1eafm v\u00e0o h\u1ecd.\u00a0 Chung quanh ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng – t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch t\u1eeb n\u00e0y – v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. \u00a0L\u00e0m sao gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 h\u1ecd? \u00a0L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi h\u1ecd? \u00a0L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng con tin c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9?<\/p>\n Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y xin Ch\u00faa m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9c tin v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng c\u1eb7p m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa; v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9c \u00e1i l\u1edbn lao, \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00edch l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng qu\u1ea3 tim \u0111\u1ea7y th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n Phaol\u00f4 Ph\u1ea1m Xu\u00e2n Kh\u00f4i chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef<\/i>\u00a0 <\/i><\/p>\n Nguy\u00ean b\u1ea3n: <\/i>http:\/\/w2.vatican.va\/content\/francesco\/it\/audiences\/2015\/documents\/papa-francesco_20150624_udienza-generale.html<\/i><\/a> <\/i><\/i><\/p>\n