{"id":13826,"date":"2022-02-22T04:49:58","date_gmt":"2022-02-21T22:49:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/?p=13826"},"modified":"2022-01-14T17:41:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T11:41:50","slug":"tu-biet-de-sua-minh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/tu-biet-de-sua-minh\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u1ef1 Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 S\u1eeda M\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"

Suy ni\u1ec7m Tin m\u1eebng Luca (Lc 6, 39-45) tr\u00edch \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0o Ch\u00faa nh\u1eadt 8 th\u01b0\u1eddng ni\u00ean C<\/h3>\n

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\u00d4ng Dale Carnegie, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 v\u0103n, nh\u00e0 di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1i t\u00e0i, n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi cho bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t 33 n\u0103m cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 trong 100 l\u1ea7n ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn 99 l\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u1ef1 xem m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 t\u1ed9i n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u.\u201d<\/p>\n

T\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3, kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i, \u201ctrong 100 l\u1ea7n ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn 99 l\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u1ef1 xem m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i.\u201d<\/p>\n

M\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao s\u1eeda l\u1ed7i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, l\u00e0m sao c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! V\u1eady l\u00e0 c\u1ee9 ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0o t\u1eadt n\u1ea5y!<\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y h\u01a1n 2.500 n\u0103m, nh\u00e0 hi\u1ec1n tri\u1ebft Socrate c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0ng ng\u1ecdc, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i th\u1eddi danh: “H\u1ee1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh.”<\/p>\n

Qua b\u00e0i Tin m\u1eebng h\u00f4m nay, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su c\u0169ng d\u1ea1y ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh. Ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i: \u201cSao anh th\u1ea5y c\u1ecdng r\u00e1c trong con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh em, m\u00e0 c\u00e1i x\u00e0 (c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e0, t\u1ee9c c\u00e1i x\u00e0 ngang n\u1eb1m v\u1eaft qua 2 \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ed9t nh\u00e0) trong con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi?\u201d<\/p>\n

V\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh n\u00ean d\u00f9 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 \u201cc\u00e1i x\u00e0 to l\u1edbn trong m\u1eaft m\u00ecnh\u201d, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i \u00e1c t\u00e0y \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 vua \u0110a-v\u00edt, m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb vua t\u00e0i ba l\u1ed7i l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Do-th\u00e1i, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i t\u00e0y tr\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u n\u1ecd, vua \u0110av\u00edt d\u1ea1o ch\u01a1i tr\u00ean s\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y b\u00e0 Bat-s\u00ea-ba, l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a U-ri-a \u0111ang t\u1eafm. Vua sai qu\u00e2n h\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi vua. \u00cdt l\u00e2u sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e0 Bat-s\u00ea-ba b\u00e1o tin cho vua hay l\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 thai v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 vua.<\/p>\n

Vua \u0110a-v\u00edt t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea1y t\u1ed9i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n l\u1ec7nh cho ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a B\u00e1t-s\u00ea-ba l\u00e0 U-ri-a t\u1eeb m\u1eb7t tr\u1eadn v\u1ec1 v\u00e0 x\u00fai U-ri-a v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0103n \u1edf v\u1edbi v\u1ee3, \u0111\u1ec3 U-ri-a t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh anh ta l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u00e0o thai trong d\u1ea1 B\u00e1t-s\u00ea-ba. Nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u00ec U-ri-a c\u1ee9 n\u1eb1m ng\u1ee7 \u1edf \u0111\u1ec1n vua m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 vua \u0110a-v\u00edt l\u1eadp m\u01b0u gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft U-ri-a \u1edf ngo\u00e0i m\u1eb7t tr\u1eadn, r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3n b\u00e0 Bat-s\u00ea-va v\u1ec1 cung, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh ( II Sam 11 v\u00e0 12).<\/p>\n

Vua \u0110av\u00edt \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m m\u1ed9t t\u1ed9i t\u00e0y tr\u1eddi: gi\u1ebft U-ri-a \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1edbp c\u1ee7a anh ta\u2026 m\u00e0 v\u1eabn ung dung nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa sai ti\u00ean tri Na-tan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3nh t\u1ec9nh vua.<\/p>\n

Nh\u00e0 ti\u00ean tri tr\u00ecnh v\u1edbi vua: \u201cTrong th\u00e0nh kia, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u sang ph\u00fa qu\u00fd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n chi\u00ean d\u00ea v\u00e0 b\u00f2, trong khi \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con chi\u00ean nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta r\u1ea5t y\u00eau qu\u00fd, coi nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch, \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft chi\u00ean m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3i kh\u00e1ch m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i cho t\u00f4i t\u1edb \u0111i b\u1eaft con chi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o l\u00e0m th\u1ecbt.\u201d<\/p>\n

Nghe \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y, vua \u0110av\u00edt b\u1eebng b\u1eebng n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn. Vua qu\u00e1t: \u201c\u0110\u1ed3 kh\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfp! N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u1ebft! N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ed3i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ea5p b\u1ed1n v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m\u2026\u201d T\u00ean kh\u1ed1n n\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?<\/p>\n

Ti\u00ean tri Na-tan th\u01b0a: \u201cT\u00e2u b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vua. Nh\u00e0 vua \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ea thi\u1ebfp l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n nh\u1eabn t\u00e2m gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft Uria v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1edbp ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a anh ta.\u201d<\/p>\n

B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd vua \u0110av\u00edt m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra t\u1ed9i m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0103n n\u0103n kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c th\u1ea3m thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Chua ch\u00e1t thay, vua \u0110a-v\u00edt th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 t\u1ed9i nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y th\u1ee9 t\u1ed9i t\u00e0y tr\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ed9i m\u00ecnh to nh\u01b0 n\u00fai, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y; T\u1ed9i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng vi\u00ean s\u1ecfi, ta th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00fang nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa n\u00f3i: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 \u201cc\u1ecdng r\u00e1c trong con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 c\u00e1i x\u00e0 ngang trong con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi.\u201d<\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su d\u1ea1y: \u201cH\u00e3y l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i x\u00e0 ra kh\u1ecfi m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u01a1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3.\u201d Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u00e3y x\u00e9t m\u00ecnh cho k\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y cho r\u00f5 l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ch\u1eeba b\u1ecf tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i.<\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y \u201cc\u00e1i x\u00e0 ra kh\u1ecfi m\u1eaft m\u00ecnh\u201d, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n s\u1eeda m\u00ecnh, mu\u1ed1n ch\u1eeba t\u1ed9i th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eebng m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng nh\u01b0 vua \u0110a-v\u00edt x\u01b0a.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh b\u1ed1c m\u00f9i kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd t\u1eafm r\u1eeda ngay. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra m\u00f9i h\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 cho m\u00ecnh h\u00f4i h\u00e1m. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh d\u01a1 b\u1ea9n, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd lo r\u1eeda s\u1ea1ch ngay. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra v\u1ebft nh\u01a1 tr\u00ean khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lau m\u1eb7t. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i h\u01b0 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1eb1ng b\u1eady c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00ea ti\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u2026 th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda m\u00ecnh n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft m\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh d\u01a1 hay s\u1ea1ch, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi. Mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i h\u01b0 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh ch\u1ec9 l\u1ed7i cho.<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n xem x\u00e9t m\u00ecnh h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n

L\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su,<\/p>\n

Xin cho ch\u00fang con th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1, v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch \u0103n n\u1ebft \u1edf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng sai ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m trong \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft ch\u00ed s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i \u0103n n\u0103n. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang con m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t cao \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, x\u1ee9ng t\u1ea7m ng\u01b0\u1eddi con Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n

Linh m\u1ee5c Inhaxi\u00f4 Tr\u1ea7n Ng\u00e0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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