{"id":4139,"date":"2023-09-20T21:25:14","date_gmt":"2023-09-20T15:25:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/?p=4139"},"modified":"2023-06-18T19:02:40","modified_gmt":"2023-06-18T13:02:40","slug":"ghen-t%c6%b0%c6%a1ng","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/ghen-t%c6%b0%c6%a1ng\/","title":{"rendered":"Ghen T\u01b0\u01a1ng"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ca dao Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f3 c\u00e2u:<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><em>\u201c\u1edat n\u00e0o m\u00e0 \u1edbt ch\u1eb3ng cay<\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><em>G\u00e1i n\u00e0o m\u00e0 g\u00e1i ch\u1eb3ng hay ghen ch\u1ed3ng\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1ecb hi\u1ec1m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7m gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt n\u1eb1m trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1eeb nguy\u00ean th\u1ee7y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ghen t\u1ecb. Cain v\u00ec ghen m\u00e0 gi\u1ebft Aben, b\u1edfi em c\u1eadu \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00f2ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. C\u00e1c anh em con c\u1ee7a Giacob ghen v\u1edbi Giuse v\u00ec em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00ean b\u00e1n em qua Ai c\u1eadp l\u00e0m n\u00f4 l\u1ec7. Vua Saol\u00ea ghen v\u1edbi \u0110av\u00edt v\u00ec d\u00e2n ch\u00fang t\u00edn nhi\u1ec7m \u0110av\u00edt, n\u00ean Saol\u00ea hai l\u1ea7n l\u1ea5y \u0111ao ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e2m v\u00e0o \u0110av\u00edt. \u0110av\u00edt ghen v\u1edbi Uria. V\u00ec \u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p n\u00ean \u0110av\u00edt \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e3m h\u1ea1i Uria \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/Skip_Beat__Jealousy_by_lady_hinata.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-4140\" title=\"Skip_Beat__Jealousy_by_lady_hinata\" src=\"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/Skip_Beat__Jealousy_by_lady_hinata-300x206.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"206\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/Skip_Beat__Jealousy_by_lady_hinata-300x206.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/Skip_Beat__Jealousy_by_lady_hinata-1024x705.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/Skip_Beat__Jealousy_by_lady_hinata.jpg 1325w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ghen v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ghen. Ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft th\u00fac th\u1eadt bi th\u1ea3m. Th\u00f9 o\u00e1n, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i l\u1eabn nhau m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng \u00e1y n\u00e1y l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n nh\u1edb v\u1ee5 ki\u1ec7n hai b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0nh nhau \u0111\u1ee9a con tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f2a c\u1ee7a Sal\u00f4m\u00f4n. M\u1ed9t b\u00e0 n\u00f3i: Hai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u1edf c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng con c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 ta b\u1ecb ch\u1ebft v\u00ec b\u00e0 n\u1eb1m \u0111\u00e8 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00ean n\u00f3 b\u1ecb ch\u1ebft. N\u1eeda \u0111\u00eam b\u00e0 n\u00e0y th\u1ee9c d\u1eady \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u00e1o con t\u00f4i\u201d. Nh\u00e0 vua vung g\u01b0\u01a1m s\u00e1ng lo\u00e1ng ra l\u1ec7nh ch\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f4i b\u00e9 c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 chia cho m\u1ed7i b\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda. Nghe v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u1ee9 hai th\u01b0a r\u1eb1ng: \u201cXin b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 tr\u1ea3 ch\u00e1u nh\u1ecf cho b\u00e0 kia, \u0111\u1eebng gi\u1ebft ch\u00e1u t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p\u201d. B\u00e0 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t th\u01b0a: \u201cCh\u00e1u b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. C\u1ee9 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng\u201d. Nh\u00e0 vua li\u1ec1n trao cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 xin \u0111\u1eebng gi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>Qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c l\u00f2ng ghen \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi: \u201cKh\u00f4ng \u0103n th\u00ec h\u1eaft \u0111\u1ed5 \u0111i\u201d. L\u00f2ng ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi v\u1edbi tha nh\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3.\u201dTr\u00e2u bu\u1ed9c gh\u00e9t tr\u00e2u \u0103n\u201d l\u00e0 th\u1ebf. K\u1ebb ghen t\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i, vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m c\u00f3 t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn tha nh\u00e2n hay kh\u00f4ng? K\u1ebb ghen t\u1ecb c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 m\u01b0u toan h\u1ea1 b\u1ec7, ch\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1p v\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u1edbi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, ghen t\u1ecb bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb \u00e1c nh\u00e2n, n\u01a1i \u0111o\u00e0n th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb gi\u1ea3 h\u00ecnh. B\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i ni\u1ec1m n\u1edf tay b\u1eaft m\u1eb7t m\u1eebng . . .. nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng l\u1ea1i \u201cm\u1ed9t b\u1ed3 dao g\u0103m\u201d, ch\u1ec9 toan t\u00ednh h\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>\u1ede \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 c\u00f3 d\u1ee5 ng\u00f4n nh\u01b0 sau: Trong tri\u1ec1u \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 hai v\u1ecb quan. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec ganh t\u1ecb, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham lam.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb nh\u1eefng t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u \u1ea5y, vua cho tri\u1ec7u v\u1eddi c\u1ea3 hai v\u00e0o tri\u1ec1u \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u00e0 vua loan b\u00e1o s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng cho c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 nh\u00e0 vua nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m qua. H\u1ecd xin g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ea5y. Tuy nhi\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o m\u1edf mi\u1ec7ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>C\u1ea3 hai vi\u00ean s\u0129 quan l\u1eb7ng thinh ng\u1eabm ngh\u0129. K\u1ebb tham lam th\u1ea7m ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt h\u01a1n, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ganh t\u1ecb th\u00ec l\u00fd lu\u1eadn, t\u1ed9i v\u1ea1 g\u00ec m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh xin tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ean kia l\u00e3nh g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i. C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng ai d\u00e1m xin tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng nh\u00e0 vua ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ganh t\u1ecb n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc. H\u1eafn b\u00e8n d\u00f5ng d\u1ea1c tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1: \u201cN\u1ebfu th\u1ebf th\u00ec xin vua cho t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ee9t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1nh tay \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ean kia b\u1ecb g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i\u201d. S\u1ef1 ganh t\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a nhau ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t mi\u1ebfng \u0103n, m\u1ed9t ch\u00e9n g\u1ea1o . . .<\/p>\n<p>D\u1ee5 ng\u00f4n h\u00f4m nay mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 ganh t\u1ecb tham lam \u00edch k\u1ef7. H\u00e3y t\u1eadp \u201cc\u00f3 sao ch\u1ecbu v\u1eady\u201d v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u00e3y vui m\u1eebng v\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a tha nh\u00e2n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng l\u00f2ng tham lam, b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n, c\u00e0m r\u00e0m than phi\u1ec1n v\u00f4 c\u1edb. H\u00e3y t\u1eadp nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eddi, nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1c quan, vui t\u01b0\u01a1i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 soi m\u00f3i, t\u1ecdc m\u1ea1ch chuy\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, r\u1ed3i b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e3y coi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 l\u00e0m t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u1edd v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi v\u00e0o gi\u1edd cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ai x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t quan ti\u1ec1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 t\u1eeb gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ecbu n\u1eafng n\u00f4i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, c\u1ef1c nh\u1ecdc, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi v\u00e0o gi\u1edd cu\u1ed1i th\u00ec \u00e2u lo th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p, v\u1ee3 con c\u1eb1n nh\u1eb1n. Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 ri\u00eang. \u201cThuy\u1ec1n c\u00e0ng to s\u00f3ng c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn\u201d. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i lo l\u1eafng ri\u00eang. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan y\u1ebfu Ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa \u0111ang d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n, cho t\u00f4i. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ch\u00faa ban m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn ra \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa \u0111ang che ph\u1ee7 tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. \u00a0\u00a0 Amen<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Lm. Jos T\u1ea1 Duy Tuy\u1ec1n<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ca dao Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201c\u1edat n\u00e0o m\u00e0 \u1edbt ch\u1eb3ng cay G\u00e1i n\u00e0o m\u00e0 g\u00e1i ch\u1eb3ng hay ghen ch\u1ed3ng\u201d Ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1ecb hi\u1ec1m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7m gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt n\u1eb1m trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1eeb nguy\u00ean th\u1ee7y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ghen t\u1ecb. Cain v\u00ec ghen m\u00e0 gi\u1ebft Aben, b\u1edfi em c\u1eadu \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00f2ng &#8230; <span class=\"more\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/ghen-t%c6%b0%c6%a1ng\/\">[Read more&#8230;]<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-phaolo","4":"post-4139","6":"format-standard","7":"category-suy-niem-loi-chua"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4139","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4139"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4139\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11533,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4139\/revisions\/11533"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4139"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4139"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4139"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}