{"id":4142,"date":"2011-09-16T23:27:27","date_gmt":"2011-09-16T17:27:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/?p=4142"},"modified":"2011-09-16T23:27:27","modified_gmt":"2011-09-16T17:27:27","slug":"chi%e1%ba%bfn-th%e1%ba%afng-long-ghen-t%e1%bb%8b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/chi%e1%ba%bfn-th%e1%ba%afng-long-ghen-t%e1%bb%8b\/","title":{"rendered":"Chi\u1ebfn Th\u1eafng L\u00f2ng Ghen T\u1ecb"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cu\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 v\u01b0\u1eddn nho \u0111i l\u00e0m t\u1eeb s\u00e1ng s\u1edbm, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee7 tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 tho\u1ea3 thu\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t h\u00e0o. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng, l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n l\u1ea9m b\u1ea9m k\u00eau tr\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 v\u01b0\u1eddn \u0111\u00e3 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u00edt gi\u1edd h\u01a1n h\u1ecd m\u00e0 v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd t\u1ecf ra b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ghen t\u1ecb v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea7y \u00edt t\u1ed1n m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u1ec1n c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>L\u00f2ng ghen t\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb kh\u1edfi thu\u1ef7 lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Cain ghen t\u1ecb v\u1edbi Aben ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Aben \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, c\u00f2n l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a anh th\u00ec b\u1ecb Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb. L\u00f2ng ghen t\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 xui khi\u1ebfn Ca-in \u0111\u00e1nh ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee9a em th\u00e2n y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

L\u00f2ng ghen t\u1ecb s\u1ee5c s\u00f4i trong l\u00f2ng vua Sa-un<\/p>\n

Khi \u0110a-v\u00edt chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng G\u00f4-li-\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eadp tan qu\u00e2n Phi-li-tinh, d\u00e2n ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ed5 x\u00f4 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ca t\u1ee5ng \u0110a-v\u00edt h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 vua Sa-un khi\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 vua \u0111\u00e2m ra ghen t\u1ecb v\u1edbi \u0110a-v\u00edt \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00f9ng s\u1ee5c \u0110a-v\u00edt t\u1eadn th\u00e2m s\u01a1n c\u00f9ng c\u1ed1c, quy\u1ebft h\u1ea1 s\u00e1t cho b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ecb anh h\u00f9ng ki\u1ec7t xu\u1ea5t n\u1ea7y. (Samuen I, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 17-18)<\/p>\n

Qua trang Tin M\u1eebng h\u00f4m nay, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ec7t ph\u00e1i v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ghen t\u1ecb v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu thu\u1ebf v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea7y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c tr\u1ed9i h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh. Ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt h\u01a1n, ch\u00f3i s\u00e1ng h\u01a1n, vinh quang h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng n\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, th\u1eafng l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec l\u00f2ng ghen t\u1ecb ph\u00e1t sinh.<\/p>\n

L\u00f2ng ghen t\u1ecb l\u00e0m x\u1ea5u \u0111i nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p gi\u1eefa anh em b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. L\u00f2ng ghen t\u1ecb c\u00f2n xui khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i nhau, l\u00e0m cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u1eadm ti\u1ebfn v\u00e0 k\u00e9m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m sao d\u1eadp t\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng ghen t\u1ecb?<\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng ghen t\u1ecb, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ea7y:<\/p>\n

1. S\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c lu\u00f4n mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch cho ch\u00fang ta.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong>Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1ea7y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i, c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. N\u1ebfu ai c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u00f4i th\u00ec l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u00e1y bay, c\u00f3 TV, c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 m\u00e1y t\u00ednh…<\/p>\n

X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u1ea7y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu ai c\u0169ng ngh\u00e8o nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u00ec l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2u ra v\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 qu\u1ed1c gia c\u00f2n l\u00e2u m\u1edbi tho\u00e1t c\u1ea3nh l\u1ea1c h\u1eadu ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady th\u00ec h\u00e3y m\u1eebng vui v\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ed5i v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n ta v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ghen t\u1ecb v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i gi\u1ecfi, gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n ta.<\/p>\n

2. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m n\u00ean m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Th\u00e1nh Phao-l\u00f4 d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng: Tuy c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 (nh\u01b0 tim, gan, ph\u1ed5i\u2026) nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1u li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u00ean m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec \u201ct\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta, d\u1ea7u l\u00e0 Do-th\u00e1i hay Hy-l\u1ea1p, n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 hay t\u1ef1 do, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecbu ph\u00e9p r\u1eeda trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/strong>” I Cor 12, 12-13)<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 trong hai th\u01b0 C\u00f4-rinh-t\u00f4 v\u00e0 \u00caph\u00ea-s\u00f4, th\u00e1nh Phao-l\u00f4 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i ch\u00e2n l\u00fd n\u1ea7y:<\/p>\n

“B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m B\u00e1nh, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t B\u00e1nh \u1ea5y, n\u00ean tuy nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3<\/strong>” (I Cor 10, 17)(Ep 3, 5-6)<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng: T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau. M\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ebf b\u00e0o hay nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn trong m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn lao l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea7y nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 qu\u1ea3 tim, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 gan, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ph\u1ed5i\u2026 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0m n\u00ean m\u1ed9t Th\u00e2n Th\u1ec3. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea7y \u1eaft s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia.<\/p>\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, thay v\u00ec ghen t\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ta h\u00e3y vui m\u1eebng h\u00e2n hoan, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111em l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i \u00edch cho ta v\u00e0 cho to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, thay v\u00ec bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n khi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u anh ch\u1ecb em b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n chung quanh tr\u1ed5i v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n ta, ta h\u00e3y th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt ch\u00fac m\u1eebng v\u00ec nh\u1edd th\u1ebf x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u1ea7y, \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1ea7y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 h\u01a1n, v\u0103n minh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Lm. Inhaxi\u00f4 Tr\u1ea7n Ng\u00e0 <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cu\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 v\u01b0\u1eddn nho \u0111i l\u00e0m t\u1eeb s\u00e1ng s\u1edbm, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee7 tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 tho\u1ea3 thu\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t h\u00e0o. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng, l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n l\u1ea9m b\u1ea9m k\u00eau tr\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 v\u01b0\u1eddn \u0111\u00e3 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u00edt gi\u1edd h\u01a1n h\u1ecd m\u00e0 v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ed3ng … [Read more…]<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-phaolo","4":"post-4142","6":"format-standard","7":"category-suy-niem-loi-chua"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4142","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4142"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4142\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4142"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4142"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4142"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}