Nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ed von r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mang m\u1ed9t g\u00f9i \u0111\u1ea7y t\u1ed9i sau l\u01b0ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00f9i c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ef1c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng Dale Carnegie, m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 tr\u1ee9 danh ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 vi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch ra nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi qu\u1ea3 quy\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ra g\u1ea7n 70 n\u0103m trong \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra ch\u00e2n l\u00fd n\u1ea7y l\u00e0 d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, th\u00ec trong 100 l\u1ea7n ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i th\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u1edbi 99 l\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 vua \u0110av\u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu\u1eadt l\u1ea1i trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh (S\u00e1ch Samuen).<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u n\u1ecd, vua \u0110av\u00edt t\u1ea3n b\u1ed9 tr\u00ean s\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ee3t th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef xinh \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111ang t\u1eafm, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00e0 Bat-sh\u00eaba, v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a Uria. Vua sai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi vua. \u00cdt l\u00e2u sau \u0111\u00f3, Bat-sh\u00eaba b\u00e1o tin cho vua hay l\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 thai v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 vua.<\/p>\n
Khi bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n, vua \u0110a-v\u00edt t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u2018b\u00e1n c\u00e1i\u2019 cho ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 l\u00e0 Uria.<\/p>\n
Vua cho tri\u1ec7u Uria t\u1eeb m\u1eb7t tr\u1eadn tr\u1edf v\u1ec1, cho \u00f4ng ta \u0103n u\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt no say r\u1ed3i truy\u1ec1n cho Uria v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 th\u0103m v\u1ee3. Hai \u0111\u00eam li\u1ec1n, Uria n\u1eb1m ng\u1ee7 trong \u0111\u1ec1n vua v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ean l\u00ednh canh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ea5y k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u2018b\u00e1n c\u00e1i\u2019 kh\u00f4ng xong, vua \u0110a-v\u00edt ra l\u1ec7nh cho t\u01b0\u1edbng Y\u00f4ab m\u01b0\u1ee3n tay qu\u00e2n gi\u1eb7c gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft U-ria ngo\u00e0i chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n
Sau \u0111\u00f3, khi \u0111\u00e3 m\u00e3n tang ch\u1ed3ng, Bat-sh\u00eaba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vua \u0110av\u00edt \u0111\u00f3n v\u00e0o cung l\u00e0m v\u1ee3 ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 vua.(II Sam11 v\u00e0 12)<\/p>\n
Vua \u0110av\u00edt \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m m\u1ed9t t\u1ed9i t\u00e0y tr\u1eddi, th\u1ebf m\u00e0 v\u1eabn ung dung nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra. \u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 trong h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m l\u1ea7n ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i, may ra ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u1ed9i. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n n\u0103n s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eafc b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa sai ti\u00ean tri Natan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3nh t\u1ec9nh vua. Khuy\u00ean vua th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u1ef1a l\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o th\u00ec m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ch\u01a1i. Nh\u00e0 ti\u00ean tri tr\u00ecnh v\u1edbi vua: \u201cTrong th\u00e0nh kia, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u sang ph\u00fa qu\u00fd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n chi\u00ean d\u00ea v\u00e0 b\u00f2, trong khi \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con chi\u00ean nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta r\u1ea5t y\u00eau qu\u00fd, coi nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch, \u00f4ng ti\u1ebfc c\u1ee7a kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m b\u1eaft chi\u00ean m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3i kh\u00e1ch m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i cho t\u00f4i t\u1edb \u0111i b\u1eaft con chi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o l\u00e0m th\u1ecbt\u201d<\/p>\n
Nghe \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y, vua \u0110av\u00edt b\u1eebng b\u1eebng n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn. Vua qu\u00e1t: \u201cN\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u1ebft, t\u00ean \u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3! N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ed3i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ea5p b\u1ed1n v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ti\u00ean tri Natan th\u01b0a: \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vua. Nh\u00e0 vua \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ea thi\u1ebfp l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n nh\u1eabn t\u00e2m gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft Uria v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1edbp v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta\u201d.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd vua \u0110av\u00edt m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra t\u1ed9i m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0103n n\u0103n kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c th\u1ea3m thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u00ean tri Natan c\u1ea3nh t\u1ec9nh, vua \u0110av\u00edt \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ed1i c\u1ea3i. T\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng trong c\u00e1i g\u00f9i sau l\u01b0ng n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 thi\u00eang li\u00eang.<\/p>\n
L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa h\u00f4m nay thi\u1ebft tha k\u00eau m\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y ra c\u00f4ng s\u1eeda l\u1ed7i cho anh em m\u00ecnh. Qua b\u00e0i \u0111\u1ecdc I, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u00f9ng mi\u1ec7ng ti\u00ean tri \u00ca-d\u00ea-ki-en r\u0103n d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta: \u201cN\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3nh c\u00e1o k\u1ebb gian \u00e1c, gi\u00fap n\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng gian \u00e1c, th\u00ec ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft v\u00ec s\u1ef1 gian \u00e1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n m\u00e1u n\u00f3, Ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f2i ng\u01b0\u01a1i\u201d (Ed\u00eakien 33, 7-9). V\u00e0 qua b\u00e0i Tin M\u1eebng h\u00f4m nay, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su truy\u1ec1n d\u1ea1y: \u201cN\u1ebfu anh em c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u01a1i tr\u00f3t ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u01a1i h\u00e3y \u0111i s\u1eeda l\u1ed7i n\u00f3\u201d\u2026<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y n\u00ean t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi cho ta.<\/p>\n
T\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1eb7t m\u0169i m\u00ecnh ra sao, c\u00f3 gh\u00e8n \u0111\u1ea7y m\u1eaft c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, c\u00f3 c\u01a1m d\u00ednh c\u1eb1m c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng hay, r\u00e2u t\u00f3c r\u1ed1i b\u00f9 nh\u01b0 t\u1ed5 qu\u1ea1 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec. T\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi tuy t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft nh\u01a1 tr\u00ean khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean d\u00f9 ngh\u00e8o h\u00e8n t\u00fang thi\u1ebfu, nh\u00e0 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 s\u1eafm cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng thu\u1ef7 tinh tr\u00e1ng thu\u1ef7 ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, ch\u1ec9 cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft nh\u01a1 tr\u00ean tr\u00e1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng cho th\u1ea5y v\u1ebft b\u1ea9n trong tim, th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng x\u1ea5u xa tr\u00ean khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng sa \u0111o\u1ea1 trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n hay trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea7n th\u00eam m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc b\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh. Thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc b\u1ea3o n\u1ea7y l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu m\u1ea5t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 soi h\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n
Ti\u00ean tri Natan ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi gi\u00fap vua \u0110a-v\u00edt th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft b\u1ea9n kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. Thi\u1ebfu t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi qu\u00fd b\u00e1u nh\u01b0 Natan, vua \u0110a-v\u00edt kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft \u0103n n\u0103n s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n
Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ec7nh truy\u1ec1n r\u1ea5t quy\u1ebft li\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n
\u201cN\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3nh c\u00e1o k\u1ebb gian \u00e1c, gi\u00fap n\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng gian \u00e1c, th\u00ec ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft v\u00ec s\u1ef1 gian \u00e1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n m\u00e1u n\u00f3, Ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f2i ng\u01b0\u01a1i\u201d. (Ed\u00eakien 33, 7-9).<\/p>\n
\u201cN\u1ebfu anh em c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u01a1i tr\u00f3t ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u01a1i h\u00e3y \u0111i s\u1eeda l\u1ed7i n\u00f3\u201d\u2026\u0085 (Matth\u00eau 18, 15)<\/p>\n
V\u00ec l\u00f2ng b\u00e1c \u00e1i v\u1edbi anh em v\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa truy\u1ec1n d\u1ea1y, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd; \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi vui l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a ta.<\/p>\n
Lm. Ignati\u00f4 Tr\u1ea7n Ng\u00e0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ed von r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mang m\u1ed9t g\u00f9i \u0111\u1ea7y t\u1ed9i sau l\u01b0ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00f9i c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ef1c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u00d4ng Dale Carnegie, m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 tr\u1ee9 … [Read more…]<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-tranquang","4":"post-3908","6":"format-standard","7":"category-suy-niem-loi-chua"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3908","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3908"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3908\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11503,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3908\/revisions\/11503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3908"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3908"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaoly.org\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3908"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}